• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
  • Because the Family that Skis Together, Enjoys Life Together.
  • Home
  • About
    • Awards
    • Featured Author
    • Brand Ambassador
  • Brave Ski Mom Stickers
  • Contact Me

The Brave Ski Mom

Building a new generation of skiers and snowboarders.

  • Skiing
    • Skiing With Kids
    • Ski Racing
    • Learn to Ski
    • Cross Country Skiing
    • Telemark Skiing
    • Snowboarding
  • Ski Resort Reviews
    • United States
      • Alaska
      • California
      • Colorado
      • Connecticut
      • Idaho
      • Maine
      • Massachusetts
      • Michigan
      • Minnesota
      • Montana
      • Nevada
      • New Hampshire
      • New Mexico
      • New York
      • North Carolina
      • Oregon
      • Pennsylvania
      • Utah
      • Vermont
      • Washington
      • West Virginia
      • Wisconsin
      • Wyoming
    • Argentina
    • Australia
    • Austria
    • Bulgaria
    • Canada
    • Chile
    • France
    • Finland
    • Greece
    • Italy
    • Japan
    • New Zealand
  • Ski Gear Checklist and Recommendations
    • Equipment and Gear
    • Product Reviews
    • Brave Ski Mom Stickers
  • Hiking
    • Camping
  • Biking
    • Downhill Biking
    • Mountain Biking
    • Road Biking
  • Good Stuff
    • Parenting
    • Health
      • Getting in Shape
    • Reflections

The Summer Vacation Technology Contract Every Family Needs

June 20, 2016 by braveskimom

family vacation
Photo courtesy Hilary Smith.

Today, a guest post from Hilary Smith, a freelance journalist, writer and parent. Hilary specializes in positive parenting techniques and technology. 

brave ski mom logoPlanning a summer vacation for the whole family?

Family vacations should be about having fun adventures, exploring new places and bonding together, but it’s hard to do this when your kids won’t get off their cell phones!

Before you book those plane tickets, follow these tips to create a summer vacation technology contract for everyone in your family:

Hold Them Responsible

A major part of the contract should be holding kids responsible for their behavior on their smartphones. Make sure that the contract outlines consequences for engaging in inappropriate behavior, and let kids know that you will monitor their smartphone use and check what apps are downloaded onto their phones.

Parents should always be aware that there are apps kids can download that allow them to hide texts, photos and videos. Be on the lookout for these hidden apps and make sure they are banned in the contract.

Phone-Free Zones

Every contract should include information on “phone-free zones” where kids must put their phones away in order to spend time with the family.

On summer vacations, any kind of activity that you do together should be considered a phone-free zone. Allow kids to use their phones to snap pictures of the family vacation, but they should not be able to text, make phone calls or hop on social media until the fun, family activity is over.

Remember to write in the contract that kids should always keep their phones on silent while in these phone-free zones.

compare cell phones

Attitude Adjustments

It’s not uncommon for kids to occasionally sport a bad attitude on a family vacation. After all, there are times when kids would much rather be with their friends than their family members.

To avoid temper tantrums and eye rolls, write in the contract that any bad attitudes will be punished with a loss of cell phone privileges. Kids have to remember that having a cell phone is a privilege and not a right. This will help maintain a pleasant atmosphere on your family vacation and set expectations for how everyone should behave together.

family on vacation
Photo courtesy Hilary Smith.

Keeping the Phone Safe

Summer vacation can mean a lot of traveling and changes in routine. Make sure that the summer contract you create with your teen holds them accountable for keeping track of their phone and protecting it from being damaged. Kids can be careless sometimes, so it’s not farfetched to think that they could easily leave a phone on the plane, in a rental car or on the hotel nightstand after checkout.

Depending on where you go and what kind of adventures you go on together, it could be easy for your teen to damage the phone by dropping it in the water or against the ground. To avoid having to pay for a replacement phone, make sure that your child knows that he or she is responsible for anything that happens to the phone. If the phone is lost or damaged, have a plan set in place for how he or she can work to pay off the cost of the repair or replacement.

Remember, to truly enjoy a family vacation, parents have to stick to the rules of the contract, too. Teens follow their parents’ example, so be a good role model and follow your own rules.

By enforcing this contract, you can make lasting memories with your loved ones this summer!

The Brave Ski Mom Adds…

While we have not used technology contracts with our sons, I can see how it would be a good idea. We did create comprehensive driving contracts when each boy turned 16 and those were very helpful (I can email you a copy if you’d like).

The links in this post have some excellent information on writing contracts. Additionally, I came across the following PDF. You would probably want to add sections on summer, family time and travel, as suggested by Hilary, but I think it’s a good starting place.

Finally, one of the BEST things we’ve done is leave our phones at home when on vacation. Read more about our unplugged adventures in Costa Rica.

Hilary Smith has parlayed her love of technology into a freelance writing career. As a journalist and parent, she specializes in covering the challenges of parenting in the digital age. She loves all things tech and hasn’t met a gadget that didn’t pique her interest.

More On Teens:

  • Mi Familia: Unplugged, June 30, 2014.
  • Parenting Teens: Off the Couch and Into the Outdoors, July 8, 2013.
  • No Regret Parenting, September 9, 2013.
  • Hard Truths About Skiing with Teens. And Some Good News, Too. March 12, 2014.

© 2016 – 2019, braveskimom. All rights reserved. Any use or publication of content, including photos, requires express permission.

Spread the Love (thanks!)

  • Email
  • Print
  • Tweet
  • Share on Tumblr

Related

Filed Under: Guest Posts, Parenting Tagged With: Family, parenting

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Lake Lili says

    June 20, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    We’re five years off needing that driving contract, but I’ll take a copy now!

    • braveskimom says

      June 20, 2016 at 5:17 pm

      Coming to you! You’re going to think we’re either crazy or have OCD. We included EVERYTHING! And you know what, within 24 hours, our oldest broke one of the rules (no friends in car for 6 months — a Colorado law) and lost his privileges as stipulated in the contract. It was so good to have it in writing and agreed to in advance!

      Thanks!

      • Lake Lili says

        June 21, 2016 at 1:26 am

        I was really impressed with that contract. All bases covered. I showed it to my father and we laughed. So many of those items were just basic for all those centuries ago when my sister and I started driving his car (none of that fancy get your own car thing – boy did we feel hard done by). I especially liked the night time driving rule. Thanks for sharing.

Primary Sidebar

2023-2024 Partners

FERA
World Snow Day
FERA

Welcome

I'm Kristen, a western Colorado mom, wife and trail boss in a busy outdoor family. Our family has a passion for skiing and my goal is to provide information to help other families enjoy their skiing adventures. Whether you have tiny toddlers just learning to slide or grown children with whom you're planning a reunion, you're in the right place. Cheers!

Never Miss a Post

Enter your email address to subscribe. You'll receive notifications of new posts by email.

Follow Me

FacebookInstagram Pinterest Twitter

Today’s Most Popular Posts

  • No Snow? No Problem: Summer Skiing in North America
    No Snow? No Problem: Summer Skiing in North America
  • Québec City: My Kind of Ski Town
    Québec City: My Kind of Ski Town
  • Ski Fashion: Curves or Turns?
    Ski Fashion: Curves or Turns?
  • Why Our Family Likes to Ski at Teton Village, Wyoming
    Why Our Family Likes to Ski at Teton Village, Wyoming
  • Tight Turns: Spring Skiing Sunscreen and Gorilla Glue Repairs
    Tight Turns: Spring Skiing Sunscreen and Gorilla Glue Repairs
  • Colorado Cookies
    Colorado Cookies

Categories

Footer

Recent Tweets

My Tweets

Featured In

snowlink world snow day snowkidz
liftopia mtn town learn to ski and snowboard mom trends
Copyright © 2025 · Genesis Framework by StudioPress · Affiliate Disclosure · Product Review & Giveaway Policy · Guest Post Policy · Privacy Policy · Login
 

Loading Comments...